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7 steps to downsizing your Home: a checklist

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Achieving financial independence often comes with dreams of a big house on a quiet cul-de-sac with plentiful space and bedrooms for the family. But during a worldwide pandemic, many homeowners have sought to simplify their life and downsize their primary residence.

To help demonstrate what downsizing may look like, we asked homebuilders and homeowners about the steps they would recommend taking if they were to downsize a home.

Here are seven steps to downsizing your home:

  • Right-Sizing
  • Accessibility
  • What Items Do You Use to Support Your Habits?
  • Do The Hard Things
  • Have a Financial Plan
  • Don’t Get Sentimental
  • Keep Things Only if They Bring You Joy

“Right-Sizing”

At Cullum Homes, instead of downsizing, we call it “right-sizing”! We have been designing and building lock-and-leave luxury homes in this specialized niche market for many years. Steps we would recommend include (1) free yourself from a large lot, pool, landscaping, etc. and the endless expense, upkeep, and maintenance they require, (2) consider a private, gated community with resort access and/or amenities that are maintained by someone else, and (3) before making the move or having a new home built, give careful consideration to the rooms and spaces you want now and might need or want in the future. Don’t become so focused on cutting space that rooms become unworkable. We have actually had clients that cut out too much space, only to return and have us add on later, or build them another larger home! — Rod Cullum, Cullum Homes

Accessibility

As a company that specializes in accessibility lifts, many of our customers are either looking to downsize or reduce the impact of mobility challenges in their homes. Many of our customers find that adding accessibility to their existing home allows them to remain comfortable and surrounded by the things that are important to them. This is often the easiest way to simplify your life. If you do need to downsize, a stair lift can make an in-law suite readily accessible. — JJ Hepp, Arrow Lift Stair Lifts

What items do you use to support your habits?

Having recently downsized our home, we took stock of how we spend our time and what we use in support of our habits. This made donating and discarding unwanted items a lot easier. We also looked ahead at the space we were moving into and how our current furniture and other items would help make this smaller space as efficient as possible. In hindsight, we spend less time maintaining our space and have more free time and a better quality of life. — Steven Brown, DP Electric Inc

Do the hard things

The reality of downsizing a home is that homeowners have less storage space and less living space. Getting rid of things is hard. Doing Goodwill drop-offs or posting items on OfferUp means saying goodbye to lots of memories. But, making the hard decision to part ways with items opens up an opportunity to say hello to a new lifestyle with reduced upkeep and increased savings. Do the hard things that come with downsizing, and your lifestyle will benefit as a result. — Brett Farmiloe, Real Estate SEO Company

Have a Financial Plan

Whenever downsizing is brought to the table, it can be a phenomenal experience. It is quite surprising to learn how you can function on a lean basis, void of clutter and unnecessary items. Continue Reading…

Give the powerful gift of Decluttering to your Loved Ones

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By Akaisha Kaderli, RetireEarlyLifestyle.com

Special to the Financial Independence Hub

Stuff, stuff, and more stuff!

My sisters and I were fortunate.

My Mother was a very forward-thinking individual. Years before she (and my Father) died, Mom started going through her closets, her paperwork, her jewelry, the items in her safe, her garden area and the storage shed next to it.

She tossed items that were outdated, expired, and the things that were no longer useful to her household. She gave away cherished items, met with a lawyer, updated her will, and made funeral arrangements.

Neighbors and friends thought it was odd but comforted themselves by saying “that’s just Betty.”

Mom, on the other hand, knew exactly what she was doing.

The years were passing by, and she didn’t want her daughters to be burdened with having to clear out piles of stuff from her home after she and her husband died. She had the foresight to put her affairs in order before the events of their deaths.

These days, the courtesy and care of what my Mom was doing now has a name. It’s called dostadning, a hybrid of the Swedish words for death and cleaning.

Not everyone is on board

My Father was much more of a patterned man. He liked his routines and his schedule. Mom? She was a tornado.

I truly think it made him nervous to have familiar (but no longer useful) items be given away or tossed out. He learned long ago not to quibble, and he picked his battles. He didn’t help Mom prepare for the inevitable, but he didn’t stand in her way, either.

Differing styles of dealing with life and death

Over the years since my parents’ passing I have watched friends and other family members deal with the demise of loved ones: in-laws, close friends, siblings or their own Mother or Father. In every case, the chaos left after a death was totally overwhelming.

In the situations where the loved one downsized after retirement, it was easier. Few people would carry pay stubs from the 1940’s into a newer, smaller home. But that was not always the case.

Many people get comfortable – not being able to let go of the past – with children’s bedrooms not touched since they left the house and married. Or countless boxes in the attic of holiday items that are no longer used, or grandchildren’s drawings and painted rocks jealously kept for their loving memories.

All well and good … except that when one passes on, these mementos are left for family members to sort out.

When the adult children go through all this — stuff — full-blown emotional meltdowns or something close to it can happen during the process. Sorting through a loved one’s home after a death is the last thing anyone feels like doing.

Morbid or renewing?

I get it.

No one wants to be chased by the idea of the Grim Reaper at their door. But keeping what you love – and getting rid of what you don’t – isn’t morbid. It’s more like a relief, like a renewal.

There is something very empowering and healthy about taking care of your own space and making it more organized. Clutter is really just a bunch of decisions that you’ve put off making. Most of the junk we have is simply stuff screaming out for a place to be or a decision to be made. Keep it (not countless duplicates) in its place or get rid of it.

Approaches to clearing your clutter

There are lots of ways to get started. There’s the brutal approach, the simple approach, and everything in between.

Brutal begins like this: If your home burned down, what would you replace? Continue Reading…