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Recently I met up with a good friend for a much-needed chat. Over the course of a few tasty cans of beer, my friend mentioned that he recently listened to the “Die with Zero” audiobook and really enjoyed the key messages of the book.
Curious, I borrowed the book from the local library and finished reading it in two days.
The book’s author, Bill Perkins, suggested that we should all aim to die with zero dollars in our bank account, or at least as close to zero as possible. He argued that too many people spend unnecessary energy working extra years only to earn money that they wouldn’t be able to spend in later years and die with a large sum of money in their bank accounts. This is definitely different from the traditional belief of saving money during your working career and spending your savings once you’re retired.
Why die with $200k in your bank account, considering it took you an extra five years to save it, when you could have stopped working five years earlier?
Perkins believes that our lives are the sum of our life experiences which can be quantified and optimized. Therefore, we should focus on spending our money when we are younger and obtain as many life experiences and memories as we possibly can.
My friend now believes in spending his money in the most optimal way to obtain memorable experiences for himself and his family while keeping a focus on saving for retirement in the best approach. This is similar to what I’ve been preaching on this blog – find your own personal balance between spending money to enjoy the present moment and saving money for your retirement.
The fallacy of “save-save-save” mentality
For many of us on the financial independence retirement early (FIRE) journey, we think about saving money constantly. We think about what’s the best way to save money and how to boost our savings rate, so we can become financially independent earlier.
But the “save-save–save” mentality isn’t actually healthy. It’s actually giving the FIRE movement a very bad vibe.
I’ll be honest, I was certainly guilty of focusing purely on our savings rate early on our FIRE journey. I wanted to cross the finish line and hit the escape button. Over time, however, I found that I wasn’t enjoying the small things in life. I felt frustrated when we spent money eating out or having a cup of coffee and treats at a cafe; I was having arguments with Mrs. T over these small expenses, because I wanted to save more money to expedite our FIRE journey.
When I stepped back and looked at the bigger picture, I realized that the “save-save-save” mentality wasn’t healthy. It was actually quite detrimental, especially to my relationship with Mrs. T.