By Kathleen Peace, CFA, CFP

Special to the Financial Independence Hub 

A recent poll by IPC Private Wealth among 400 affluent Canadians with at least $500,000 in investable assets revealed that 74% of men say they are the lead financial and investment decision-makers in their household. Among women, only 46% say they are the lead decision-makers.

Ladies, listen up! You are probably going to live longer than your male partner. On top of this, there is a 50% possibility that you will divorce your partner (with financial conflict being one of the reasons why). In either case, you will experience a large inflow or outflow of both investment assets and income. This eventuality means that being 100% cognizant of your family’s current financial situation is a must. Waiting to figure this out until after a spouse’s passing or marriage breakdown is at best reckless, and at worst, an enormous imposition on what will already be an emotionally taxing situation.

Let’s get on top of this. A Masters degree in Finance is not required. Gather information and open up a regular dialogue with your spouse. Both will go a long way to getting on top of your family’s pecuniary situation. Here’s how to get started.

Communicate, Communicate, Communicate

Enlist your partner’s help in becoming more aware of your financial situation. Given that money issues are among the top friction-areas for couples, keeping an open dialogue about how money is run in your family will benefit your marriage both fiscally and emotionally. Opening up this discussion is not always easy.

For many families, money is a taboo subject; in fact, many feel that the most difficult topic to discuss with loved ones is their personal financial situation (apparently they would rather discuss death, politics or religion!) An incredibly helpful resource for starting the money conversation with your partner: Breaking Money Silence: How to Shatter Money Taboos, Talk More Openly about Finances and Live a Richer Life, by Kathleen B. Kingsbury.

Know your Advisor

If you don’t know your family’s financial planner/advisor, change this! Continue Reading…