
By Bob Lai, Tawcan
Special to Financial Independence Hub
Let’s be honest here, inflation is real. Very real! Despite being as frugal and careful with our expenses as possible, we are seeing an increase in our living expenses; arguably, just like everyone else.
Unfortunately, many of these expenses are completely outside of our control …
- We were just informed by the city that our property tax increased by 11.5% this year
- Our monthly equalized Fortis-BC payment increased by 20% due to natural gas rate adjustments
- Gas prices recently hit over $2 per litre
- Groceries cost way more now. I mean, a bag of Hardbite chips is over $5, and avocado costs $2 at regular price? What is this, highway robbery?
Let’s not forget the rising interest rates, leading to higher mortgage payments.
And those are just core expenses. Now if we consider discretionary expenses as well …
- It’s not unusual to see hotels at over $250 per night, or even over $300 and even $400! In fact, recently a lawyer complained about the hotel prices in Vancouver. And is not alone!
- Staying at an Airbnb is just as costly and sometimes it costs even more than staying at a regular hotel

- Airfares are far more expensive than pre-COVID. Good luck finding tickets to Europe for under $1,000 per person.
- Dining out is more expensive. A bowl of ramen costs close to $20 with taxes and tips added. We spent over $120 for the four of us dining out at a local White Spot last month, and we only had burgers, a couple of milkshakes, and a dessert to share.
You get the picture. At this point, I wouldn’t be surprised that our 2023 annual expenses will be considerably higher than the previous years.
Feeling frustrated with our expenses
The other day I was looking at our budget/expense tracking spreadsheet. To my horror, I noticed that we have been overspending in our Play account by a significant margin. To be more specific, we have dined out far more so far in 2023 than in other years. We have had three months where we spent over $1,000 on dining out! (On average, we usually spend around $350 on dining out per month)
While I know we’ve spent big money on a few occasions, like Kid T2.0’s birthday dinner with 15 people, a big dim sum lunch with 9 people, dinners a few times in Whistler with Mrs. T’s family, Mrs. T’s birthday lunch with 11 people, and celebrating our wedding anniversary, I was surprised to see that we spent over $1,000 on dining out for May.
Sure, we ate out multiple times during our recent 4-day trip in Calgary, but that was around $500 in total. I couldn’t explain how we spent the other $500.
I was frustrated and bummed out about spending so much money dining out yet again. For the life of me, I couldn’t figure out how we spent the other $500. I did recall having takeout sushi for about $120 but I couldn’t think of other dining-out occasions.
After going through the credit-card statements and spreadsheet, I realized we have had many smaller dining out expenses. $20 here and there, $30 here and there, and the amount quickly added up.
During this frustrated & annoyed state, the only thing I could think of was that we needed to take some extreme action.
“No dining out or take-outs for June!” I declared to Mrs. T.
“And what do you plan to spend our money on?” Mrs. T asked.
I couldn’t answer her question at all. All I could think of is that we need to reduce our spending, so we can save more. I think deep inside I was worried that we’d run out of money because of the increase in our overall expenses.
Save! Save! SAVE!
Unfortunately, my save, save, save, and save some more mentality was creeping in very quickly.
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