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Bank of Mom and Dad: Without cash to give, it’s wise to consider lending good financial lessons and habits

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By Grant Rasmussen

Special to the Financial Independence Hub

When the going gets tough and your bank account gets lighter, for many young people, having your parents on speed dial is a go-to solution. But with inflation rates not seen since the 1980s, and interest rates reaching their highest point since 2008, Canadians – including parents – are facing unprecedented financial realities, and may not be in a position to pick up the call. The impact of this for many younger adults and students is that borrowing from the ‘Bank of Mom and Dad’ isn’t the option it once was.

The numbers show that parental support has been significant for their children: a recent study last year found that parents gave over $10B in down-payment help over the past year to younger Canadians in the housing market. With the average cost of a down payment climbing from $52,000 in 2015 to $82,000 in 2021, that help is needed more than ever.

While down payments represent one big ticket item on the spending list, there’s also tuition, rent and other living expenses, etc. all to help young people make ends meet. And in a year that marks a major financial plot twist, those same parents are facing their own challenges to do just that.

According to a new study, four-in-five (80 percent) Canadians have begun cutting back on spending—some ways include trimming discretionary spending, delaying major purchases, or deferring saving for the future. This is up from 74 percent in February, showing that more Canadians are feeling pressure financially.

With less cash to support their kids, sound advice from Mom and Dad may be the next best thing. Below are a few places to start.

Keep ALL your money

Fees are a slippery slope. Whether it’s subscription fees for things you’re not using or day-to-day avoidable fees on things like banking, it’s important to look at the cumulative effect of small, ongoing fees. At Simplii, we offer a no-fee chequing account, with no monthly fee, unlimited bill payments, e-transfers and more. Additionally, you have free access to over 3,400 CIBC ATMs throughout Canada, saving people from paying service fees. When times are tighter, it’s worth looking at every spending category to see where efficiencies can be found. Continue Reading…

Retired Money: Can retired Boomers afford to be the BOMAD to their kids?

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My latest MoneySense Retired Money column looks at the question of whether almost-retired or already-retired Baby Boomer parents should provide financial assistance to their Millennial children seeking to get their first steps on the increasingly expensive housing ladder.

That is, is it wise for parents to cut into their own Retirement savings in order to become the BOMAD: the Bank of Mum and Dad?

It’s been said that 50 to 75% of millennials expect to tap the BOMAD for help coming up with a down payment.Click on the highlighted headline to retrieve the whole column: Should you help your adult children to buy Real Estate?

A couple of the column’s sources arose after I appeared on Patrick Francey’s The Everyday Millionaire podcast.

Francey is a seasoned entrepreneur and real estate investor who is CEO of REIN of the Real Estate Investment Network (REIN). These days, most REIN members who have at least one “door” (real estate investment property above and beyond a principal residence) are almost by definition millionaires. I appeared despite the fact our family owns no investment real estate, apart from REIT ETFs in a purely electronic portfolio: “clicks instead of bricks,” as I explained on the show.

REIN’s Patrick Francey, host of The Everyday Millionaire podcast

Interestingly, while he has helped his own kids with housing, Francey does not necessarily think parents should provide financial assistance to kids trying to break into the housing market: not if it jeopardizes their own retirement, and not if it means the kids will miss out on the character-building exercise of doing it on their own.

A similar stance came from retired mortgage broker and author Calum Ross, who also recently appeared on the podcast. Ross, of Toronto-based The Mortgage Management Group, has some experience with BOMAD as it relates to his two daughters.   “As a divorced Dad, BOMAD was restructured and now runs as a privately held entity BOD [Bank of Dad.],” Ross quips.

Ross says his parenting priorities are identical to how his parents raised him: 1) I taught them to be thoughtful, 2) I raised them with a work ethic, and 3) I taught them to save money and not spend it.

Adrian Mastracci, portfolio manager with Vancouver-based Lycos Asset Management, says BOMAD may be a great deal for the kids but Mum and Dad need to first ensure they have sufficient funding to see them through their retirement years. “Ensure that they can incur all expenses, health costs, effects of inflation, rising costs of providing for in-home services, a retirement home facility and rehabilitation costs of the current home.” Continue Reading…