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How to stop comparing yourself to Others: 12 Tips

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What is one tip to help stop comparing yourself to others?

To help you stop comparing yourself to others, we asked personal coaches and thought leaders this question for their best advice. From practicing gratitude to asking yourself questions that challenge you, there are several things you may put into practice to help you stop comparing yourself to others.

Here are 12 tips to stop comparing yourself to others:

  • Practice Gratitude

  • Look Back and Count Your Gains

  • Admire Your Differences Instead

  • Override Your Dissatisfaction With Positive Affirmations

  • Celebrate Others

  • Take a Break from Social Media

  • Remember Everyone Has Their Challenges

  • Identify and Celebrate Your Own Strengths

  • Practise Meditation To Stay Grounded in Yourself

  • Focus on Your Own Personal Growth

  • Choose To Practise Good Values

Ask Yourself Questions That Challenge You

Practice Gratitude

When you regularly practice gratitude, you don’t have time to focus on what others have. You’re not inclined to compare yourself to them or think about what you lack. With a gratitude mindset, you’re focused on what you have, and how appreciative you are of having it. Gratitude resets your mind and redirects your energy towards building up more of what you already have rather than trying to catch up to someone else. — Chris Abrams, Abrams Insurance Solutions

Look Back and Count your Gains

It’s easier said than done, but try thinking about or even making a list of the things you used to want that you have or are closer to having now. For example, maybe 10 years ago you wanted to be moving up in your career and getting closer to buying a house. Rather than beating yourself up about what your friend or that person on Instagram is doing, ask yourself what you’ve already achieved that a past version of you would be proud of, or what you’ve learned that a younger version of you didn’t understand.

When you frame challenges and comparisons this way, you’re not only able to see your strengths and what you’re capable of much more clearly, but you’re also setting yourself up to be a better version of yourself as opposed to a better version of someone else. — Gigi Ji, KOKOLU

Admire your Differences instead

When you compare yourself to others, you mentally put yourself below them. You convince yourself that you don’t have something that someone else does have and you take your power away. But, if you admire your differences instead of comparing them, you put positive energy out into the world and that gives you the power.

The power to appreciate what you have, the power to learn from what others have, and the power to choose how you view the world and yourself in it. It’s easier to be positive than to be negative, so take the easy and healthy route and admire someone instead of comparing yourself to them. –– Staci Brinkman, Sips by

Override your Dissatisfaction with Positive Affirmations

Drown out the comparisons with positive affirmations. The moment that you start to compare yourself to someone, think of something that you do well and tell yourself that instead. It’s a simple trick, but over time, your mind gets the idea and will stop seeing yourself as less than, and instead as equal to, and the comparisons will fall away. It will take time, and it feels funny at first, but it’s a reminder that we’re our harshest critic, instead of our greatest support, and the latter takes practice. — Tony Staehelin, Benable

Celebrate Others

Many people do compare themselves to others these days and that tends to make them more self-absorbed. One way to stop that attitude is to celebrate others’ achievements. You can avoid the comparison syndrome by focusing on other people and learning to be happy for them in their moments. This can take some practice. It may not feel good at first because many are motivated to draw attention to themselves. However, you will care less about where you stand in society the more you learn to focus on other people. Focusing on others will make you happier and then the comparisons don’t have as much power over you. — Bruce Tasios, Tasios Orthodontics

Take a Break from Social Media

My top tip to stop comparing yourself to others is to take a break from social media. Social media is likely only one place you compare yourself to others, but it’s a big one. If you scroll on your phone for a few hours a day and in that time, feel bad about yourself, it’s time to take a break. Disconnect from social media for a bit and focus on yourself! If you choose to get back on social media, unfollow anyone who makes you feel bad about yourself. — Macy Sarbacker, Macy Michelle

Remember Everyone has their Challenges

Comparing yourself to others is fruitless because everyone has their own set of challenges. These challenges are often not visible to those on the outside. Individuals can never hope to know the struggles of others by comparing themselves to the success they see on the surface.

Wanting what others have lacks perspective because we often do not know what other people are carrying with them. A successful executive may appear to have a wealthy lifestyle when in reality they have the misfortune of tumultuous family life or chronic illness. Comparing yourself to others is pointless when you are unaware of what others are truly dealing with. — Katy Carrigan, Goody Continue Reading…

7 simple ways to pay off Debt in Retirement

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By Lyle Solomon

Special to the Financial Independence Hub

Carrying debt into retirement can ruin your golden days. You will most likely have a limited income after retirement. Though you can boost your Social Security income by taking the proper steps, your spending may rise yearly due to inflation, causing your budget to collapse. The burden of debt and the high expense of medical bills can wreck your retirement.

According to a CNBC report, the total debt burden of America’s senior citizens has increased by 543 per cent in the last two decades. 70% of baby boomers are in credit-card debt and are unsure how they can get out of it. It is recommended to pay off your obligations as soon as possible and enjoy your golden years. Repaying your debts during retirement is always a good idea. But how will you go about it? Here are some of the ways to repay your debt in retirement so that you can enjoy your golden years.

1.) Sort your debts by priority

The first stage in debt management in retirement is prioritizing which bills to pay off first. So, make a list of all your loans, including their interest rates and remaining balances. Unsecured debts, such as credit cards, typically carry high-interest rates because no collateral is required. I recommend that you begin paying off loans with the highest interest rates first, which will help you save money in the long term. Furthermore, unlike student loans or mortgages, you cannot deduct interest payments from your tax returns on unsecured debts.

It is preferable to pay off unsecured obligations first, as they are not usually tax-deductible.

2.) Seek professional debt assistance

Are you drowning in high-interest unsecured debt? If this is the case, you may be working hard to repay your obligations but cannot do so due to the constant high-interest rates. In that case, you can seek professional assistance by contacting a reliable debt relief business. The company’s debt advisers will examine your debts and develop a reasonable payback plan based on their findings. You can enroll in a credit card consolidation process to repay your huge credit-card debt. Settling debts can be possible under the guidance of a professional debt relief company. They will  negotiate with your creditors to lower the excessive interest rates. Once your creditors have agreed, you can begin making single monthly payments for all of your debts. In this manner, you may pay off your unsecured obligations without worrying about coordinating multiple payments. You can also save money on interest payments because your debts’ interest rates will likely be reduced.

3.) Examine your budget again

Hopefully, you have a budget to keep a proper spending plan and preserve money for your financial well-being. The more you put into your monthly loan payments, the faster you’ll be debt-free. As a result, you must save more to increase your monthly loan payments.

To do so, go over your budget and identify places where you may decrease costs and save money. You can save money on things like eating out, entertainment, cable TV subscriptions, etc. You can save a significant amount of money to put towards your monthly debt payments.

4.) Follow your preferred debt repayment plan

You can use any debt payback method, debt snowball or avalanche. The debt snowball strategy requires prioritizing the debt with the lowest outstanding sum first. At the same time, you must make minimum payments on all of your other loans. After you have paid off that loan, you must focus on the debt with the second smallest outstanding balance, and so on. Continue Reading…

Retired Money: Rising rates make annuities more tempting for Retirees

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My latest MoneySense Retired Money column looks at whether the multiple interest rate hikes of 2022 means its time for retirees to start adding annuities to their retirement-income product mix. You can find the full column by clicking on the highlighted headline here: Rising rates are good news for near-retirees seeking longevity insurance.

The Bank of Canada has now hiked rates twice by 50 basis points, most recently on June 1, 2022.  That’s good for GIC investors, as we covered in our recent column on the alleged death of bonds, but it’s also  welcome news for retirees seeking longevity insurance.

As retired actuary Fred Vettese recently wrote, retirees may start to be tempted to implement his suggested guideline of converting about 30% of investment portfolios into annuities. As for the timing, Vettese said it is “certainly not now: but it could be sooner than you think.” He guesses the optimal time to commit to them is around May 2023, just under a year from now.

After the June rate hikes, I asked CANNEX Financial Exchanges Ltd. to generate life annuity quotes for 65- and 70-year old males and females on $100,000 and $250,000 capital. The article provides the option of registered annuities and prescribed annuities for taxable portfolios. It also passes along the opinion of annuity expert Rona Birenbaum that she greatly prefers prescribed annuities because of the superior after-tax income. Of course, many retirees may only have registered assets to draw on: in RRSP/RRIFss and/or TFSAs.

For a 65-year old male investing $100,000 early in June 2022, with a 10-year guarantee period in a prescribed (non-registered) Single Life annuity, monthly income ranged from a high of $548  at Desjardins Financial Security with a cluster at major bank and life insurance companies between $538 and $542. (figure rounded). Comparable payouts on $250,000 ranged from $1299 to $1,390. Because of their greater longevity, 65-year old females received slightly less: ranging from around $500/month to a high of $518, and for the $250,000 version from $1238 to $1319.

Here’s what Cannex provides for comparable registered annuities (held in RRSPs):

For a 65-year old male (born in 1957), $100,000 in a Single Life annuity nets you between $551 and $571 per month, depending on supplier; $250,000 generates between $1,399 and $1,461 a month. For 70-year old males (born 1952), comparables are $625 to $640/month and $1,578 to $1,634 a month. Continue Reading…

Artificial Intelligence can help investors and advisors alike

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By Fuad Miah and Justin Hacker

Special to the Financial Independence Hub

Financial and wealth-management advisors tend not to be big fans of robo-investing. No surprise there because service and understanding the client are front and centre in what they do.

But for many investors today, especially younger ones, robo-investing may be seen as a low-cost, low-maintenance way to grow their wealth. Robo-investing relies on algorithms to make investments automatically and this is with minimal human supervision at best. But there is no ‘expert’ service involved and that is not good.

On the other hand, how about using Artificial Intelligence (AI) to assist advisors in better serving their clients and, in the process, help those clients build better portfolios? Don’t look now but the technology is here and it can start with meetings. Nowadays people are slowly but surely returning to the office and financial advisors are even getting back to meeting face-to-face with their clients. But a face-to-face meeting is not always required.

A new world of hybrid meetings

Today, however, we are in a new world of meetings where firms big and small are adopting a mix of online, in-person and ‘hybrid’ meetings which utilize both the virtual and in-person variety. With AI an advisor can make this choice wisely.

It involves human-like AI that enhances the meeting experience for both the host and the attendees by allowing participants to focus on the meeting and forget about labour-intensive tasks like note-taking. How? A full transcript and recording of what transpired are automatically created and then crafted into a concise executive summary. And the technology can do even more by using what is called ‘collected telemetry’ (the conversation data that pertains to everything from context to emotion) to build an advanced analysis of performance and even  sentiment. Continue Reading…

Why are Millionaires flocking to Mexico? (and Non-Millionaire Retirees, too!)

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Panoramic view of Guanajuato City

By Billy and Akaisha Kaderli, RetireEarlyLifestyle.com

Special to the Financial Independence Hub

According to the Mexican Government, around 1.1 million expatriates lived in Mexico as of 2020. Of those, about 700,000 were from the United States, making Mexico the #1 country worldwide for American Expats.

We have listed a dozen reasons below why Mexico is attractive to those with plenty of money, and also to those who don’t have that much.

Freedom

While there are many reasons to move to Mexico, the Number One reason people come here is for the freedom they experience.

With less regulation on all fronts, critics might think that Mexico is a lawless frontier.

Not so.

Mexico is still a place where one can walk the beach with a beer in hand. We can give a homeless person food without filling out countless forms to gain permission or explain if there is mayonnaise on the sandwich or have the food rejected because it’s not in a paper bag. While we personally are not smokers, an individual who chooses to smoke can do so without being read the riot act or be subjected to invectives about their personal worth as a human being.

Many medications can be purchased over the counter without a prescription. One can afford medical care and not be forced into buying an expensive health insurance policy that doesn’t coincide with their personal health approach. Homeopaths, Naturopaths, Chiropractors and those who practice acupuncture or massage can be found easily and their services are affordable. One can walk into a lab and order an x-ray or a blood test on their own without a prescription.

There is respect for the elderly and those over 60 are not invisible. People who are chubby are not judged and can easily find someone to date or marry. People on the street say hello and good morning to complete strangers, and men still tip their hats to women. The young offer their bus seats to those of us who have more years than they do.

People say “excuse me” when they walk in front of you, and it’s perfectly safe to walk through a group of teenage boys without fear.

Common sense is common.

Some are moving due to political climate at home

The world is changing, no doubt. Many have chosen Mexico to get out from under the tense political climate back home.

Mexican culture is lively and accepting and it’s a breath of fresh air to live here. Smaller towns, especially, are like Norman Rockwell paintings.

But bigger cities offer fabulous diversions away from home country political pressure. There are museums, international dining, hiking, cultural events, music, art and volunteer opportunities too.

The caution here, is to not bring the “old” political attitude with you when you move. Grow into the easy and into the pleasantry here in this country.

Zicatela Beach, Puerto Escondido

Affordability

Having money or not, your quality of life should expand over what you are experiencing now in your current home town. The cost of living is such that you will get more for your money and your nest egg will go farther.

Truthfully, depending on where you might choose to live, purchasing a home can be expensive, but rents are cheap. And if you are at retirement age, you might find that putting your money into “living” versus “housing” might be the better choice, anyway.

In either case, gardeners, housekeepers, maintenance people and supplies are all cheaper than you will find in the US or Canada. In Chapala, Mexico, a housekeeper runs about $6USD for 2.5 hours. In Ajijic, Mexico – another popular Gringo town –  it is twice that price, but still not outrageous.

Legalities of permanent status are easier

Getting a permanente or a temporada card is easy to do. While some choose to fill out the paperwork themselves, having a lawyer arrange for this is also quite affordable.

Qualifying for residency is based on your annual income and/or net worth, and the threshold is easy enough to meet. The requirements for getting a temporary card are lower, and after renewing annually for 5 years, the temporada moves into becoming a permanente.

If you have your own state’s driver’s license, you can use that here in Mexico, but if you are not able to renew it, you can obtain a Mexican driver’s license in its place. So long as your present driver’s license is still active, you will only need to take the written exam of 10 questions. You won’t have to perform a driving test in the parking lot.

One can live on Social Security alone

While it’s always great to have more money, one can easily live comfortably on Social Security. The average [monthly] SS check as of 2021 is US$1,658. Rents are available for $300-$600USD per month for a one bedroom or a casita. So, those who are on a limited income can readily find a comfortable place to live and still have money left over for a social life and medical expenses.

For those who actually are millionaires, one can live like royalty in homes with lake views, swimming pools, 3- and 4 bedrooms, plus house and garden help: and they can still keep their millions.

Adaptability

Yes, Mexico is a foreign country. However, our ability as Norte Americanos to adapt to these perspectives can be far smoother than with cultures with which we have less in common.

Celebrating many similar holidays, perceptions and values run concurrent with those we already have. The time zones are also similar to the US and Canada, making contact with family members on Zoom, Facetime, or Skype a breeze.

Weather is better: geographic choices

No matter if you enjoy having four seasons or prefer a tropical climate, Mexico offers it all. Continue Reading…