By Mark Seed, myownadvisor
Special to the Financial Independence Hub
From one of my favourite blogs and podcasts to listen to (Farnam Street), I recently read a few lines about today-self and tomorrow-self that offered up some reflection.
In a nutshell:
“There is a constant battle in all of us between our today-self and our tomorrow-self.”
Today-self tends to care about today … looking for immediate gratification or in some cases, avoiding doing things today that can be done tomorrow. Very child-like.
Tomorrow-self is like our inner adult, who has the knowledge and experience that it takes time to get meaningful results. That could be working on things like your career, your relationships or your financial independence journey.
From the Farnam post:
“Imagine you are tasked with building a brick wall. Today-self looks at the empty space in disbelief, discouraged at the size of the project. Today-self decides to start tomorrow. Only tomorrow never comes because the empty space again seems insurmountable. Today-self decides to talk about the wall they’re going to build, as if it were the same as building the wall. It’s not.
Tomorrow-self knows that no one builds a wall all at once. It’s going to take a month of consistent effort from the time you start before it’s done. Tomorrow-self wishes you’d stop thinking about the wall and focus on one brick.”
How true.
So, as so many sayings tend to go related to behavioural psychology for any sort of success:
think BIG, act small.
Life is complex. Life is very uncertain. We can be easily and often overwhelmed by the magnitude of things and things to do.
At the end of the day, while we need to have our long-term brick wall in mind, we should just focus on one or two bricks each day. Do some of the smallest things well that move you forward. Then repeat. The logic is simple but not simplistic.
From The Behavior Gap:

The wisdom of tomorrow-self is this: Focus on one thing you can do today to make tomorrow easier. Repeat.
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