
By Jessica Moorhouse, CFC™
Special to Financial Independence Hub
What most people don’t know is that when I first pitched my book idea to my publisher, its original title was More Than Money.
I thought it expressed everything I wanted to say about how most people’s financial struggles went well beyond a lack of money or financial literacy. After more than a decade of discussing money with people from all walks of life as a content creator and helping individuals and couples with their finances as a Certified Financial Counsellor, I saw firsthand how money was rarely the root cause of their financial troubles. Unfortunately, I wasn’t the only person who thought it was a good title. On my last count, there are already five books on Amazon using that same name.
It’s about Everything but Money
It wasn’t until two months after I handed in my manuscript that I finally landed on the right title for my book: Everything but Money. I think it took me that long because I needed to go on a well-overdue journey of self-discovery while writing my book and come to the realization that my own struggles with money have always been about everything but money. Through countless hours of research, interviews, and therapy, I had to face the fact that as a money expert whose job it is to educate people about their finances, my relationship with money was downright toxic.
My Toxic Relationship with Money
At first, I was ashamed. I’m supposed to be the expert here, which should mean I’m a role model and have my stuff together. Although it may look that way on a balance sheet, on the inside, I was an anxious mess who never felt good enough, no matter how much I earned or had in the bank. The real reason I dove head-first into the personal finance space as a young blogger in 2011 was that subconsciously, I thought money would be the solution to all of my unhealed emotional wounds. The unhealthy friendships that damaged my spirit growing up. The middle child syndrome that made me feel invisible. The intense pressure I put on myself to be seen and heard through external validation.
Don’t confuse Money for Happiness (but it can help)
But as I discovered while writing the book, money isn’t some magical cure-all. There’s a reason there are so many miserable millionaires and billionaires out there. Although research shows that money can increase your happiness (to a limit), research also shows it cannot fix your unhappiness. I mean, have you seen Succession? Continue Reading…









