By Bob Lai, Tawcan
Special to Financial Independence Hub

As you can imagine, a lot of planning is required to reach early retirement. Despite all the planning, projections, and running different scenarios, there will always be some level of uncertainty when it comes to early retirement. However, because the financial independence retire early (FIRE) community is a very supportive and tight-knit one, it is not difficult to find help and support.
Q1. Welcome to this blog, Reader P. We have exchanged emails over the years (8 or more years, I think). Very happy to hear that you have enjoyed reading this blog. Can you tell us a little bit about yourself and your wife?
A1. First of all, thank you, Bob for giving me this opportunity! Your blog is one of the very few blogs I frequent and I admire what you have accomplished. Moreover, you are an inspiration to anyone who wants to achieve Financial Independence.
As for us, we are in our mid-40s with 3 kids aged 14, 11, and 9. I am a Professional Engineer earning $130K (before any bonuses) and my wife is a Registered Nurse who now works 0.6 FTE (full time equivalent, starting 2022) and picks up additional shifts; her total salary hovers around $80K. She was full-time before but with our current situation, it is time we lead a little more balanced life.
We try to live off of her income and my income is used for investing, mortgage pre-payments, and for anything that is “fun” which includes travel, kids recreational activities, and cars.
We didn’t start saving/investing until we turned 30, and in our 20s, a lot of $ was spent on things that ultimately added no value to us.
Q2. That’s interesting you try to live off Mrs. P’s income and use your salary for mortgage payments and investing purposes. What was the reason for such an arrangement?
A2. Because my job isn’t always secure, it made sense for us to live off of her income, as she is a nurse and her job is quite secure.
Thankfully, I was only laid off once early in my career and found another job within a month. However, being laid off early in your career can significantly alter your perspective on the world.
Q3. Are both you and your wife maxing out TFSAs and RRSPs every year? Why do you think that so many Canadians don’t max out their TFSAs and RRSPs?
A3. Yes, we max out both TFSAs and RRSPs each and every year, after we turned 30. TFSAs were introduced when we were in our late 20s so it was rather easy to use up the contribution room once we got serious about investments.
As a nurse, Mrs. P’s actual RRSP contribution room is reduced because she has a defined benefit pension plan. So it is “easier” to max out her RRSP room as it’s under $4K per year. Mine is a little more, but we are still able to save each month, which we then put towards a non-registered account(s).
Most folks don’t put in as much in their registered accounts, probably because of a lack of knowledge, information, and understanding. Compounding works amazingly, and its full power can only be felt if you start early. That is what I’m teaching my eldest.
Q4. Do you have pensions through work? Has having pensions through work made your early retirement planning a little bit easier? If not, please explain.
A4. Yes, I do have a pension through work via SunLife. Unfortunately, I don’t have much say except that I have selected or opted for index-based mutual funds. I only contribute enough to get the match from the employer, which is 5% (so I contribute 5% and the employer matches that). The rest of the RRSP contribution room is done by me directly, by investing in low-cost index funds.
I think having a defined benefit pension plan is like gold; they are hard to come by, but once you have it, you should never let it go (within reason). But having a pension through work that is mostly mutual funds with high fees isn’t that great. I sometimes wish my employer would just give me the 5% directly, and I would invest it myself. I have kept track of my performance for RRSP from work and RRSP that I self-manage, and as you expect it, my self-managed RRSP is easily outperforming the Sunlife options because of the fee difference.
As for early retirement planning, I would say that for most, having pensions through work is very beneficial, given the match from the employer. And having a defined benefit pension plan is like hitting a jackpot.
Q5. You shared a similar investing path as us: started out with mutual funds then went into DIY investing. Why did you make this switch?
A5. So we started investing in 2010 when we were expecting our child. In the 2000s, we didn’t invest anything other than a matching work pension. At that time, I had no idea how to invest, and everything felt so new. But with a kid on the way, it prompted me to do more work.
I started with reading several books (Millionaire Next Door, Stocks for the Long Run, etc.), and I found the Canadian Couch Potato blog and realized that investing is quite simple: just buy a low-cost index fund and stay the course. We were with TD bank, so buying TD e-series mutual funds, which were index-based funds with the lowest MER was the way to go. So we started DIY investing. We went with what was called an aggressive portfolio: 25% each of CAD, US, Int’l and Bonds (TD900, TD902, TD911, and TD909). I’d buy once a month each so that is 48 total transactions, and the best part about TD e-series mutual funds is that they are commission-free. So we were saving $480 per year in transaction fees. Another benefit of TD e-series mutual funds is that there is no bid-ask spread, so that is some savings there as well. Plus, your dividends are automatically reinvested which means that there is no drag of uninvested cash. TD e-series mutual funds were our go-to from 2010 until 2022.
Side note: I eventually got rid of my entire bonds position in 2022 because I realized that I don’t need bonds to help me stay the course. Volatility didn’t bother me one bit and I already had a mortgage so logically speaking, having bonds made no real sense. With that said, I would still consider buying bonds again about 5 years before full retirement.
Tawcan: Agree with you, the TD e-series mutual funds are pretty great,
Q6. When you went away from mutual funds, you went with index ETF investing, then switched to dividend growth investing, and recently moved back to index ETF investing. Can you explain the reasons behind these moves?
A6. The more I read, the more Dividend-Growth-Investing spoke to me. I loved the idea of having free income coming in, and having lost a job in 2012, I really was intrigued by the idea of living off of dividends, so we started buying dividend-paying Canadian individual stocks. We did that from 2015 to the summer of 2022.
In the spring of 2022, my eldest, who was 11 at the time, was displaying some negative behavioural symptoms. We initially thought that she was just going through puberty, but it turned out to be far, far worse.
Because of school shutdowns and a lack of social interactions due to COVID, many, many kids got the short end of the stick. My girl was one of them. She also faced cyberbullying, and we had to take major interventions to ensure that she went back on track (and thankfully, she is now). Basically, a smart, hard-working girl who gets good grades started getting below-average grades, got bullied, started having suicidal thoughts, etc., really puts another perspective on what is important in life.
Tawcan: Sorry to hear that you went through that. That must have been rough for the family.
As such, Mrs. P. picked up as many nursing shifts as she could. Because of shift-differentials (you get paid more if you work evenings, weekends, and a lot more if you work STAT or Overtime), Mrs. P worked extra long and we banked a lot of cash. In 2020 alone, we saved and invested six figures in non-reg accounts. We did that again in 2021, and we did around $40K in 2022. Then we had this behavioural problem that came upon us, and it dawned on us that money isn’t everything.
So we changed our strategy: she went to work part-time and we started paying a lot more attention to all three kids to ensure that they are on the right track. What good is having a 7-figure portfolio if your kids are on drugs and are under a bad influence?
At the same time, I had been reading Humble Dollar blog and came to the conclusion that volatility doesn’t bother me at all. So I sold all the TD e-series mutual funds and converted them into XEQT in both our TFSAs and RRSPs.
We also stopped adding to our non-registered accounts but we still max out TFSA and RRSPs.
The main reason we stopped buying individual stocks is that there is a tremendous amount of empirical evidence that suggests that buying individual stocks is a loser’s game.
So I honestly asked myself why I even started buying dividend-paying stocks? I came up with 4 reasons: Continue Reading…















